I just wanted to let everyone know how we are doing and what we have been up to. Tim's mom is now in remission and recovering. She will stay in the hospital until her body is mostly back to "normal". While she has been in the hospital, we have been working like crazy to make sure she will come home to a safe, serene, sanitized, and calming environment. We don't want her to worry about anything but getting healthy again. Tim feels like his compass has pointed him to the house and quiet visits with his mom. He has tried to balance work, family, visits at the hospital, and house repairs for his mom. This man is a machine!! I am so proud of how he is handling the situation. I think keeping busy is helping all of us cope with our emotions.
Today, after finishing another weekend of work we ran to the hospital to visit Linda. She has not seen the boys since she was admitted. They put masks on and stood by the door so we didn't bring her any germs. The boys were quietly observing the surroundings, sang Nama a song, and blew her lots of kisses. They told her that her "hat" was pretty. :) This road we have been on has been hard for them because they don't understand why Dad is absent etc, but they are handling it like champs. We are teaching them a life lesson that my parents taught me when my Grandma Arlene was sick. My mom was with her all the time, day and night taking care of her and her needs. While my mom was doing that and dad was working, the five of us were taken to my Grandma Helen's house. My dad tells us that we were crabby about the time we didn't have with our parents, which makes me sad (I was 7yr old). Obviously we caught on to what they were teaching us...NO MATTER WHAT FAMILY IS ALWAYS 1ST! Nama needs us now and that is where we need to be!
I wanted to also mention here some of the many people that have helped us through the past month...
My parents, Uncle Terry, Aunt Colleen, Aunt Nancy, Heather and Aaron Banks for helping with our boys!
Marci and Dave Greisen, Ben and Natalie Baker, and Ben and Jeanne Oberle for "feeding us"!
Tate Mathiason, Jim Whittington, and ALL OF THE OLSONS/WHITTINGTONS/JERINS for helping on Linda's house updates and repairs!!
And of course, all of you wonderful friends and family that have constantly kept in touch with phone calls, cards, emails,caring bridge messages, etc with your prayers and kind thoughts. Even if there isn't anything new for us to report on Linda's condition, it is still great to hear that people are still praying for her and thinking of us.
This was the end of this weekend (2 days at Nama's working wore them out)
Still making time for bike rides
Grandma to the rescue. My mom stayed with us for a week to clean, cook, play, cuddle, and boysit so we could make trips to the hospital.
This was our hike yesterday at Nama's trail. They were so restless so while Tim was painting I took them on a hike and yes we got lost!
One of our many trips to the library for storytime
This was yesterday. This never happens but the boys worked so hard yesterday at Nama's that Max fell asleep while sitting up watching a show! His head hit the pillow at 6:30 and he didn't move!
Papa's turn to rescue us! The boys were crazy about Papa getting here!
out for pizza at lunch
We are blessed to be supported in the hard times. It helps us feel like everyone is going to come out on top, ESPECIALLY NAMA!!